E is a kid who likes structure. I try and provide it without being too scheduled. Our sleeping and eating times are routine and Tray Time is usually done during T's nap. But, I don't want to make his daily schedule too concrete considering he is still 2.
We do, however, use E's Clip Schedule. It is something I made after a frustrating day of being asked to do the same thing over and over again.
I took an old oatmeal container and stripped the packaging off the outside and wrote down the things I would like to encourage E to do each day.
I wrote things like Tray Time, Music Time, Help Time, Mommy Time, Play Time, etc. I then took clothespins and placed them in the middle of the can.
After E does an activity, he clips it and leaves it until the end of the day. He is not required to do all the activities in one day. In fact, I think we have only done this once or twice.
The goal for me is to give E motivation to try different things throughout his day. I don't force him to do something. It works more like a list of options.
At the end of the day, E will often take it and sit with Daddy. He tells him about the things he has done that day. It helps him remember everything and gives him a chance to included his dad on the activities of the day.